A super booster to your sexappeal is a combination of confidence and approachability. There is a way how to use your physiology to increase both confidence and approachability. For this I created an exercise called “Confidence with a smile”.
Confidence With a Smile Exercise©
The exercise consists of three parts.
Color clues: Dress in a way that makes you feel good and attractive (elicits confidence). Dress in a feminine way, this shows you are embracing your gender. In the times of emancipated women, looking feminine is especially attractive to men.
Physiology clues: Look at yourself in the mirror with a big smile and then walk outside on the street, where there are a lot of people. Walk slowly and relaxingly, breathe slowly and deeply and smile. (elicits confidence and approachability)
Emotional clues: Walk like you own the street and people there, are your guests. (elicits confidence and hospitality) Look people in the eyes and smile as you are meeting them. Smile at all, young and old, everybody without an exception. See how many smiles you get back.
On one side this exercise requires to step out of your comfort zone. On the other side, every smile you get, will make your day nicer. People will start noticing you. This is a simple but yet complex exercise that will make you stand out of the crowd. Practice it regularly until it becomes comfortable. The purpose isn’t to pick up random guys, but to increase your confidence and approachability. That way you have it available when you need it.
WARNING: It could happen to you, men will abandon their restaurant dinner and will chase after you as it happened to me. Two second smile can do a lot. Have fun with it.
In case you are not quite ready for the full version, start with just the walking part, later add smile, then add looking at people and finally add the emotional part of owning the street and having guests.
Confidence, approachability and also happiness are signs of high energy zone. The following is a story what can happen in reality when high energy shines out of you.